Dating some 20 years older
If you’re confident that he loves you for a host of reasons beyond your looks and the ego boost he gets from “landing” you as his woman, then it’s imperative you trust him and the relationship you’re building (which is true in any relationship, regardless of age).Another challenge is that most women want to be in a relationship with an “Alpha Male.” If, however, as an older woman you have a more difficult time letting him take the alpha role, you may ultimately end up feeling like you’re the one who’s “in charge.” It’s imperative that you stay in your feminine, even if you’re more financially stable, have more life experience than him, and are dying to tell him what you would do if you were in his shoes.Older women tend to exude a more “together” vibe, seeming to be more in tune with her needs (physical or otherwise), which makes her very attractive to younger men.The problem, however, can be that an older woman is simply a challenge for the younger man.And since we believe a match made in heaven is based on common values, you may be setting yourself up to be in a mismatch from the get-go.
This website is using a security service to protect itself from online attacks.This is EXTREMELY important and will make or break where your relationship is headed.Some other potential issues that can arise if an older woman is dating a younger man: There’s a chance you’ll experience some insecurities or anxiety about whether a younger guy will stray, but that can only happen if you haven’t mastered your own self-confidence that a guy is with you for the right reason.December-May is always going to be looked at in a different light than May-December; so unless you can ignore others’ opinions about your relationship with a younger man, you’ll be out of luck.If you’re a woman who has insecurity about aging (Okay, who doesn’t?
You missed our wild days and we're settled down now. "Older" doesn't necessarily mean we're going to stop watching cartoons or laughing at fart jokes.